Did you know that as of 2023, there were 30,700 people employed as counsellors in Australia? That’s tens of thousands of trained professionals ready to help. So how do you pick the right one online without getting lost in endless profiles? In this article, we’re going to…
- Have a quick chat about what a counsellor actually is and how an online counsellor differs
- Walk through the key things to keep in mind when you’re searching in Australia
- Explore what you might need from your counsellor—and how to work out if they’re the right fit
- Share the best ways to find your ideal online counsellor, including using The Indigo Project’s own “Get Matched” tool
By the end, you’ll feel completely clear on how to track down a qualified, caring counsellor who ticks all your boxes, and we’ll round off by showing you how The Indigo Project’s curated network makes it even easier.
What Is a Counsellor (and What Makes ‘Online’ Different)?
At its simplest, a counsellor is someone trained to listen non-judgmentally and guide you through life’s trickier moments. They’ll help you:
- Sort through confusing emotions
- Build coping skills for stress, anxiety or grief
- Navigate relationships, career or identity questions
- Develop healthier habits and mindsets
Most Australian counsellors hold qualifications at Certificate IV, Diploma or Bachelor’s level in counselling (or related fields), and must adhere to ethical codes set by bodies like the Australian Counselling Association (ACA) or the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA).
So, what makes online counselling special? In online sessions, you can connect from wherever you are: your lounge room, the back of the car between school drop‑offs, or even on your lunch break at work. The core of the work—listening, reflecting, teaching coping strategies—remains exactly the same.
And with The Indigo Project’s “Get Matched” tool, you answer a few quick questions and we find you a therapist who best suits your needs, no endless scrolling required.
5 Key Things to Keep in Mind When Searching
With thousands of counsellors out there, these pointers will help you narrow the field:
- Qualifications & Registration
- Look for ACA or PACFA membership (or both).
- Check that they’ve completed at least a Certificate IV or higher in counselling.
- If they call themselves a psychologist, ensure AHPRA registration.
- Specialisations & Experience
- Do they work with anxiety, grief, trauma, and relationship issues?
- Have they got experience with your particular concern (e.g. postnatal stress, LGBTQIA+ identity, workplace burnout)?
- At The Indigo Project, each therapist’s profile clearly lists their “areas of focus,” so you can instantly match your needs.
- Session Style & Format
- How long are their sessions?
- What platforms do they use—Zoom or a dedicated app?
- Indigo therapists offer flexible formats to suit your needs.
- Availability & Scheduling
- Do they offer evenings or weekend slots?
- How far in advance are they booked out?
- Can you book via an online portal, or is it email/phone-only?
- With The Indigo Project’s integrated booking system, you can see real‑time availability and lock in your session in seconds.
- Fees & Rebates
- What’s the session fee?
- Can you claim private health fund rebates?
- The Indigo Project transparently displays fees and rebate options on each profile, so there are no surprises.
Spending a little time on these details will save you from settling for someone who sort of fits, and instead help you find a counsellor who’s exactly right.
What Do You Want from Your Counsellor?
Before you even start Googling names, it pays to pause and reflect for a moment on what you need:
Emotional Support
If you want a safe space to vent, offload and feel heard, look for a warm, empathic counsellor who emphasises “holding space” and validation.
Practical Tools
If you crave step-by-step strategies, thinking-styles, grounding techniques, routine planners, seek someone who specialises in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) or solution-focused work.
Deep Healing
For trauma, attachment wounds or grief that runs deep, you might prefer someone trained in EMDR, somatic experiencing or other trauma-informed modalities.
Life Transition Guidance
Career changes, relationship shifts or becoming a parent? Look for counsellors who highlight life-stage or transition coaching in their profiles.
Ongoing Coaching
Some people want short-term relief, others want a longer-term coaching partnership. Be honest with yourself: do you want a one-off “tune up,” or a weekly check-in over months?
By answering these questions first, you can use Indigo’s filters to instantly narrow your matches to those who tick every box.
The Best Ways to Find Your Perfect Online Counsellor
Use Reputable Directories
- The Indigo Project’s “Find a Therapist” tool matches you with their team.
- ACA’s “Find a Counsellor” directory lets you filter by location, specialism and more.
- PACFA’s register does the same for psychotherapists.
Read Real Testimonials
- Look for client reviews on their website, Google, or independent review sites like HealthDirect.
- Take testimonials with a grain of salt—it helps to look for positive patterns (“always available for check-ins,” “gave me actionable tools”).
Book an Introductory Chat
- Treat this like a first date: Do you feel heard? Comfortable? Interested in what they’re saying?
- The Indigo Project’s Perfect Match Promise means that if you don’t click with your therapist in the first two sessions, we will match you with a new therapist, and your next session is free of charge.
Ask the Right Questions
- “How would you describe your therapy style?”
- “What’s your experience with [my issue]?”
- “How do you handle crisis moments between sessions?”
Your Indigo therapist will be happy to provide clear answers upfront.
Trust Your Gut
At the end of the day, the most qualified counsellor in the world won’t help if you don’t feel safe with them. If something feels off, it probably is, so keep looking until you find someone you click with.
Overcoming Common Concerns
“I’m not sure I can open up online.”
Totally valid. Some people feel awkward on camera at first. You can ask your counsellor if you can start with your camera off, or spend the first few minutes with lighter conversation to ease into it.
“What if my internet cuts out?”
Good counsellors always have a backup plan: they’ll give you a phone number to call if Zoom drops, or be happy to reschedule.
“Is online the same quality as face-to-face?”
Research shows online counselling can be just as effective, especially if you’re distracted or anxious in person.
“I’m worried about privacy.”
Look for platforms with end-to-end encryption, and ask about their confidentiality policies – all ethical registrants follow strict privacy codes. The Indigo Project’s secure portal meets rigorous privacy standards.
Our Step-by-Step Process
Finding the right online counsellor in Australia doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. Take it one step at a time:
- Get clear on what type of support and communication style you need.
- Use trusted directories (The Indigo Project, ACA, PACFA) to start your shortlist.
- Vet qualifications, specialisations and fees.
- Book introductory chats and ask your key questions.
- Trust your instincts—comfort, safety, and connection matter more than anything else.
How The Indigo Project Can Lighten the Load
At The Indigo Project, we’ve built our entire practice around making counselling feel like a friendly chat, not a clinical assessment. Since 2012, we’ve been providing:
- Online Counselling – via video, fitting support into your life
- Specialised Therapies – from CBT and EMDR to targeted help for grief, trauma, eating disorders, postnatal depression and more, all delivered by carefully curated experts
- Courses & Events – sound journeys, workshops and group programmes to boost your wellbeing
- Workplace Wellbeing – tailored seminars, webinars and sessions to help teams stay mentally healthy
Our team of over 30 qualified counsellors, psychologists and psychotherapists is spread across Australia, so whether you’re in busy cities like Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane or a small town, you’ll find someone you click with. Plus, our non-clinical, down-to-earth language means you’ll feel understood from your very first hello.
Ready to Start Your Search?
If you’re keen to find a registered, experienced online counsellor who gets you, speak to a member of our team and use our Get Matched tool today. Book your first chat, see our counsellors’ profiles, and take the first step towards the support you deserve—no waiting rooms, no traffic jams, just genuine, relatable care whenever and wherever you need it.